A light went on when I listened to Tran speak. To live without the endless possibilities of what might have been sounds like a dream. And a very elusive one at that. I am ashamed to admit how often, I relive moments of the past. - If only I had said this, or done that. I try on multiple scenarios, weighing various degrees of positive or negative outcome. This creates a life in which, I am one of the most indecisive people I know, because of the process I put myself through after the decision is made. I believe most of it is a fear of regret, and a burning desire to create the best possible outcomes for myself and my family, but I am certain that it is exhausting.
Here's the talk.